{"id":87042,"date":"2022-11-10T00:05:02","date_gmt":"2022-11-09T23:05:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.freya.nl\/?p=87042"},"modified":"2022-11-10T00:05:02","modified_gmt":"2022-11-09T23:05:02","slug":"ik-heb-je-hartje-gezien","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/staging.freya.nl\/?p=87042","title":{"rendered":"Ik heb je hartje gezien&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mark: \u201cMijn vriendin en ik zijn vijf jaar bezig met onze kinderwens. Verschillende IUI-pogingen, een afgebroken IVF-poging en een IVF-poging in Duitsland leidden niet tot resultaat. Bij de IVF-poging ontstond slechts \u00e9\u00e9n embryo en deze heeft het helaas niet gehaald. Ondanks de vervroegde overgang lukte het twee jaar geleden \u2013 net voor de eerste IVF-poging &#8211; toch om&nbsp;op een natuurlijke manier zwanger te worden. De eerste echo die gemaakt werd was goed, maar bij de tweede echo bleek er geen hartactiviteit meer te zijn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De miskraam hebben we zelf als heftig ervaren; we moesten hiervoor een nachtje naar het ziekenhuis. Mijn vriendin heeft het daarna een beetje weten te verwerken door alles op te schrijven. We kochten ook een gedenkdoosje. Echter bij mij komt nu ineens de klap pas. Ik ben vaak rationeel en praat niet veel over mijn gevoelens, maar de laatste weken overvalt het me ineens. Ik zit nu drie dagen thuis van het werk en heb veel moeten huilen. Ik schreef er dit gedicht over.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-style-default\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/staging.freya.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/14-Ik-heb-je-hartje-gezien-Mark.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-87043\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dit gedicht verschijnt in het kader van de&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/staging.freya.nl\/week-van-de-vruchtbaarheid-2022\/\">Week van de Vruchtbaarheid 2022<\/a>.&nbsp;<br>Het thema van deze week is DE IMPACT VAN VRUCHTBAARHEIDSPROBLEMEN<br><em>Volg ons op&nbsp;<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/FreyaNL\"><strong><em>Facebook<\/em><\/strong><\/a><em>&nbsp;en&nbsp;<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/freya_nl\/\"><strong><em>Instagram<\/em><\/strong><\/a><em>&nbsp;voor updates over de Week van de Vruchtbaarheid.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Wil je meer lezen?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/staging.freya.nl\/kinderwens\/diagnoses\/vervroegde-overgang-prematuur-ovarieel-falen-pof\/\">Info over vervroegde overgang<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/staging.freya.nl\/kinderwens\/zwangerschap-en-kind\/miskraamzwangerschapsverlies\/\">Miskraam en zwangerschapsverlies<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Onze tips:<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Freya beheert diverse besloten Facebook-groepen.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/staging.freya.nl\/freya-op-facebook\/\"><strong>Meld je aan bij de groep die past bij jouw situatie<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Praat erover met anderen! 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